The Benenator 2000:
What’s more, it’s a heartening piece that fits into a larger mosaic. After two-and-a-half years, President Obama has successfully repealed the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law; expanded federal benefits for the same-sex partners of executive-branch employees; signed the Hate Crimes Prevention Act into law; cleared the way for hospital-visitation rights for same-sex couples; lifted the travel/immigration ban on those with HIV/AIDS; ordered the Federal Housing Authority to no longer consider the sexual orientation of applicants on loans; expanded the Census to include the number of people who report being in a same-sex relationship; and hired more openly gay officials than any administration in history.
There have also been more symbolic gestures, including the White House hosting an event to honor the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall riots, announcing the first-ever transgender presidential appointee, nominating the first openly-gay man to serve on the federal judiciary, honoring same-sex couples in his Mother’s Day and Father’s Day proclamations, recording a video for the “It Gets Better” Project, and hosting Gay and Lesbian Pride Month events at the White House.
And today, the president has offered his well-timed endorsement of the Respect For Marriage Act.
On top of that, there was this:
The U.S. Senate voted overwhelmingly on Monday to confirm J. Paul Oetken as a district court judge, making him the first openly gay man appointed to the federal bench.
Oetken, 45, will fill a vacancy on the high-profile Southern District of New York. He’s worked in-house at Cablevision Systems Corp. since 2004, most recently as senior vice president and associate general counsel. President Barack Obama nominated him in January.
And yet still, we have activists who say stupid shit like Obama being the most anti-gay President or that they won’t lift a finger to get him re-elected and other nonsense too numerous to even document (All together now, let’s whine: “We’re tired of hearing about Lily Ledbetter!”). It all boils down to “look at me, look at me” as far as I am concerned.
“But John, you just don’t know the role of an activist! It’s to push for more!” Maybe I don’t know the role of the new breed of narcissistic activist that seems to dominate our discourse, but it seems to me the role of activism would be to reward those who advance your issue, punish those who hurt it, and try to push for more change. Not to throw hissy fits and not only throw out the baby with the bathwater, but to half-hang it, kick it, call it names, and then when the baby is dead and gone, claim that it was your actions that saved the day and advanced the cause.
One person has been slowly giving people the change they need, slowly, methodically moving forward, without a lot of show and with little to no thanks. Pro-tip- that person isn’t one of the loudmouths out screaming at a certain President about some fat preacher speaking at his inauguration, and it sure as hell isn’t a member of the GOP, who will be rewearded if we listen to our “activists.”
I know whose side I am on. I wish the clowns did, too.
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